Monday, May 13, 2013

Time Is Flying....

Time is flying!  Before I can catch my breath from one event the other is staring me in the face.  It's ALL good...I just don't regroup as quickly as I used to:)
This first picture is from the Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure yesterday in Richmond.  Allie, Ben, Ellen & I walked in celebration with Alicia.  She stomped cancer!  It was a terrific way to start the Mother's Day weekend.  Allie had driven home 3 days ago and is home for the summer!  It is so good to see her and spend more than just a few moments together.  She will start her thesis this summer and prepare to graduate in December.  It is hard to believe...it seems that she just graduated from VCU! 
The TCW 25th Annivesary Celebration was such a wonderful day.  We had about 150 people there with balloons, facepainting, and Lynda Smith w/ LiveWire.  The highlight for me was that Glenn and Sheila Plott were able to spend time with us!  It was an absolutely precious time.

My dad's brother, Kemp Eagle passed away....Paige read it in the Newport News paper and called me.  I don't even have the words to express how I feel about all of it.  It's way too personal to write about in a blog.

John and I went over to the Spain's to see the newest additions to their goat family.  SO sweet. 
Mother's Day Allie and I spend a quiet morning in bed while John visited Tabernacle's Sunday School class.  Then we wandered down to the neighbor's house to love on their old horses a little bit....so calming...

Friday, April 5, 2013

Driving From Atlanta Tonight

Allie is driving all night from Atlanta and I am on our living room couch driving with her.  She left Decatur about 9:30pm after class and should get here about 5:45am. I'm just curled up on the couch with Louie and Will is on the floor beside us.
The picture is from an overnight with all the Morton family at my aunt Janet's in Horsepasture VA.  This is Ben's first pic on my blog :)
I'll probably be good for nothing tomorrow because of staying up all night tonight, but that's just the way it is.  I have a load of clothes in the dryer and will flop into bed the same time she does.
John and I stacked wood together today. We try to do something productive on the maintenance of the house each day.   Worked on workcamp, but the big happening was that I HAD LUNCH WITH LINDA WILLIAMS at Wabi Sabi!  We yakked and ate for about 2 hours!  It was so good to see her and sort of catch up.  I'm so excited that she will be driving down and picking up Glenn & Sheila for the TCW reunion on the 20th!
I'm dealing with the fact that our 16 year old doggie, Will , is getting very close to the time when we need to lovingly let him go.  He is almost totally blind,in diapers and gets a little confused at time.  I know when I write it out it sounds horrible, but he's really quite happy and not in any kind of pain and eating well.  The vet says we'll know when......
Well, it's almost 4am....Al should be here in a little less than 2 hrs.....and the dryer buzzer just went off....

Sunday, March 31, 2013

Whew....Long Time....No Write!

There is no way that I can even begin to catch up on EVERYTHING that has happened in the Romaine household since December!  It's now April 1st and a lifetime of happenings have gone by in the past 3 months.
I am neck deep in planning the WORKCAMP 25th Anniversary celebration...WORKCAMP 2013....and to top it all off, I am working at getting the Palestinian youth from Nablus with us again this summer. 
Al came home for what was to be a brief stay during mid-terms.  She thought she could write her papers from here as well as from GA.  But.....she ended up in the ER twice....kidney stone, kidney infection....and to top it all off she got the stomach virus!  She drove back to Atlanta last night and will turn around and come back in four days for spring break!
John spoke at Prince George Christian Church during Lent, but one of the services was SNOWED OUT!!! Can you believe!
We are now watching the LOST series together....we watch one a day!  It takes us away for a little bit. 
So.........I think I'm back on track with the blog thing!  We'll see...

Saturday, December 15, 2012

Many Ups & Many Downs

So much is happening here at home, around our country and around the world.  Our nation now is grieving for the children and adults killed in the elementary school in Connecticutt.  Trying to make sense of it does nothing but make me sick on my stomach.  I want to look for the good.....I want to look for the good....
Allie drove straight through after her exam the other night.  Nine hours later she was in Virginia!  So glad to have her home.  Between she and John though, I don't think I am going to get much done the next month.  I still have presents to get, Workcamp house orders to write, ....lots to do, but it is good stuff.
We plan to go to Busch Gardens ChristmasTown tomorrow night.  JR might even join us!  We're trying to pick a time to get together with Paige & Grover.  Allie sees Dr. Ciurash on Monday morning.  John & I have been hauling & spliting wood while using the 4 wheeler & wagon.  So much fun!  The wagon got a flat though and won't be repaired until Monday.
John bought a new Camry....yep, just turned in the Honda and drove home a Camry.  It is so nice and I feel so much better with him in it.  We also have someone coming to put new windows in the house.  Ours are literally falling out.  Thankful that we have $$$ in savings to do it.
We're eating navel oranges like there's no tomorow.  Ordered a box of them from Ellen for a PGHS band fundraiser.  Went to the Colonial Heights Christmas Parade last Tuesday.  Missed the Prince George one :(
My banjo picking has slowed down, but I'll start practicing diligently soon.  One thing at a time! 
I met my niece Jennifer up in Lynchburg the other weekend and we went out in search of a graveyard of EAGLES. We have quite a time and met some really good people in the process.  Next time I think I'll take my metal detector. 
John has had church services, a funeral and has reconnected with some old friends. 
                                              Elvis in the Colonial Height Christmas Parade :)

Thursday, November 29, 2012

Too Much To Write

                                                    Playing "Headbands" on Thanksgiving Day
                                                          Ellen directing the PGHS BAND

I always wait too long and then don't get to write about half of what I want to write about! 
Thank God the election is over and with the results we wanted !! Yes, Obama & Tim Kaine!  I wasn't looking forward to a move to Canada! 
Jeffrey has been really ill, but much better now.  John & I went to see the movie "LINCOLN" yesterday...it was awesome!  I have started playing the banjo.  The Collins let me use theirs and Allie/Ben had so much fun playing it that Karen S. is going to loan us one for Ben to keep at his apartment.  It's going to be a yee haa time around the Romaine house during the Christmas holidays!
Allie will be home in 14 days!  I can't wait!  We plan to go to ChristmasTOWN at Busch Gardens.  I'll miss the Prince George Co. parade because I am heading to Lynchburg to pick up my niece, Jenn and we are going to find and photograph an old cemetary that some EAGLES are buried in.  FUN!
I love riding the John Deere and blowing the leaves with it!  It is so much fun for me.  We haven't been back down to Cathy's to "play" with the horses but I hope we will soon.  There is just SO MUCH going on.  I went to look at the first 3 houses for WORKCAMP 2013 yesterday also.  That is quite a reality check! 
We are also getting ready for the big 25 year celebration!  I have had so much fun going through old photos!
John has a funeral to do on Dec. 8th.  I am almost finished with my Christmas shopping.  I am going to get my hair cut and colored next week.  AND I WANT TO PUT UP OUR TREE AND DECORATIONS!!!!
SO, I am going to get off the computer!!!!!! LOL!

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Haven't Heard That Word In A Long Time...


You know....back in the sixties, the word  C U LT  was thrown around a lot.  It reared it's head later because of Jim Jones and the fiasco in Ghyana.  We now joke, "Don't drink the Kool-Aid!" but rarely see how giving up our ability to look around is quite the killer.  During the election, I kept hearing the word  over & over  concerning some political movements and some religious choices. 
You know, this wouldn't even be a phenomenom if people would THINK FOR THEMSELVES.  It's a matter of getting out of the bubble of your political party, your community, your school/university, even your church if the things listed below are occuring. 
 I found the following principles on the internet on HOW TO START YOUR OWN CULT.  It's quite amazing. It can happen in large groups or small groups if people give up their freedom of choices and rely on the opinions of the "members" that surround them 24/7.....

HOW TO START YOUR OWN CULT

1)  First, create an  Us vs. Them atmosphere….a utopia , "group-think"  setting where your
       group believes they are the ones that hold truth 

2)  If possible, create a commune or place where only like minded believers can live

3)  Subtly isolate from anything outside the core experience  - provide activities so that members
      have no time and eventually have no desire to associate with those outside the core experience
     To create more isolation, discourage outside different friends and activities by providing a total
     package of daily emotion charged activities within the member walls. It’s all about the group
    "fellowship" and it’s themes & promises.

4)  Emphasize the visual and sensual over the intellectual. Create large groups of followers singing,

     meditating, cheering or chanting. Distract from the study & debate of any differing opinions by
     offering emotional  “chill bump” happenings to convince members of their "truths". 

5)  Outside literature, books, movies, videos must be tightly controlled.  Engaging in music/dance,&
     art that has not been sanctioned by "the group" is a sign of weak devotion and must have
     consequences. 

6)  Create an overpowering experience of love and friendship while simultaneously handing down
      a standard of conduct with consequences of repremand  (ie. dress, hygene, time management,
      plus lists of locations & activities not permitted )

7)  When members first join your "group", have them expeience "love bombing".  Set up
      relationships for new members such as mentors, "friends", advisors, internet connections, bunk
     mates.  Subtly suggest with whom members should and should not associate so that they will
     not be "led astray".

8)   Create choices of rituals and compulsory activities within the group's grounds. Structure as much
      of a follower's day as possible, keeping them aware of the group timeline & of what is permitted
      and what is required during certain parts of the day.  Offer rallies, studies, concerts,
      competitions.  Down time only provides opportunity for  questioning teachings.  Again, rely
      heavily on stimulating emotion through activities, speakers, music, etc.

9)  Make sure the atmosphere is one of “group think” or everyone hearing the same message.  
    Make sure they are all well taught in defending their positions against those outside the group. 
    Cause it to feel risky, unloyal or even unhealthy to debate or question the groups' beliefs openly.
    A group member is taught that any exploration or dialogue like this could possibly cause them to 
   sway or become unsure.


I can certainly see why Workcamp, with some of these elements, was called a cult by a Baptist church back in the nineties.  The difference is that workcamp is a MOVEMENT and not a CULT. 
Ours is a retreat of one week.  We do not say one group has absolute truth over another group.  Although there is a bit of some of the above elements, we are only one week.  We encourage diversity and stepping out of the box to try something new and different.  A movement encourages these things....a cult does not. 
So check out your "group".  Hopefully now that the election is over, the "C" word won't be used as much.  It's exciting to see men and women following with their hearts AND THEIR HEADS! 















Monday, October 29, 2012

Hurricane Sandy




The top photo is of some of the workcamp staffers that came to a wrap-up session yesterday.  Everyone came dressed goofy in the Halloween spirit .  They also came bearing a big brownie cake for my 60th birthday.  We almost chose not to have the meeting because Hurricane Sandy is looming in the ocean.  We did postpone the board meeting because Katrina is at a wedding and Debra has grandkids throwing up.  We have the generator ready and water in buckets on the screen porch in case we lose power.   It's really supposed to hit NJ & NY hard!
The horse pics are from our neighbors house.  She adopted two horses that someone didn't want.  Wonderful animals that we are welcome to come visit or ride anytime!  LOVE IT!
I keep procrastinating about closing the pool.  Guess we'll turn the pump off finally this coming week.
Allie was here for 4 days during mid-term.  It was so good to see her.  We're counting the days before she comes back for Thanksgiving.  I've already started picking up grocery items.  Jeffrey is coming to eat with us too.
The John Deere is terrific for corraling all the leaves.  Bottom line, it's so fun to ride it and see all the leaves gone!
Well, tonight we should start rocking and rolling with the storm.  Hopefully we are passed by!  All flights on the east coast are shut down.