So much is happening here at home, around our country and around the world. Our nation now is grieving for the children and adults killed in the elementary school in Connecticutt. Trying to make sense of it does nothing but make me sick on my stomach. I want to look for the good.....I want to look for the good....
Allie drove straight through after her exam the other night. Nine hours later she was in Virginia! So glad to have her home. Between she and John though, I don't think I am going to get much done the next month. I still have presents to get, Workcamp house orders to write, ....lots to do, but it is good stuff.
We plan to go to Busch Gardens ChristmasTown tomorrow night. JR might even join us! We're trying to pick a time to get together with Paige & Grover. Allie sees Dr. Ciurash on Monday morning. John & I have been hauling & spliting wood while using the 4 wheeler & wagon. So much fun! The wagon got a flat though and won't be repaired until Monday.
John bought a new Camry....yep, just turned in the Honda and drove home a Camry. It is so nice and I feel so much better with him in it. We also have someone coming to put new windows in the house. Ours are literally falling out. Thankful that we have $$$ in savings to do it.
We're eating navel oranges like there's no tomorow. Ordered a box of them from Ellen for a PGHS band fundraiser. Went to the Colonial Heights Christmas Parade last Tuesday. Missed the Prince George one :(
My banjo picking has slowed down, but I'll start practicing diligently soon. One thing at a time!
I met my niece Jennifer up in Lynchburg the other weekend and we went out in search of a graveyard of EAGLES. We have quite a time and met some really good people in the process. Next time I think I'll take my metal detector.
John has had church services, a funeral and has reconnected with some old friends.
Elvis in the Colonial Height Christmas Parade :)
Saturday, December 15, 2012
Thursday, November 29, 2012
Too Much To Write
Playing "Headbands" on Thanksgiving Day
Ellen directing the PGHS BAND
I always wait too long and then don't get to write about half of what I want to write about!
Thank God the election is over and with the results we wanted !! Yes, Obama & Tim Kaine! I wasn't looking forward to a move to Canada!
Jeffrey has been really ill, but much better now. John & I went to see the movie "LINCOLN" yesterday...it was awesome! I have started playing the banjo. The Collins let me use theirs and Allie/Ben had so much fun playing it that Karen S. is going to loan us one for Ben to keep at his apartment. It's going to be a yee haa time around the Romaine house during the Christmas holidays!
Allie will be home in 14 days! I can't wait! We plan to go to ChristmasTOWN at Busch Gardens. I'll miss the Prince George Co. parade because I am heading to Lynchburg to pick up my niece, Jenn and we are going to find and photograph an old cemetary that some EAGLES are buried in. FUN!
I love riding the John Deere and blowing the leaves with it! It is so much fun for me. We haven't been back down to Cathy's to "play" with the horses but I hope we will soon. There is just SO MUCH going on. I went to look at the first 3 houses for WORKCAMP 2013 yesterday also. That is quite a reality check!
We are also getting ready for the big 25 year celebration! I have had so much fun going through old photos!
John has a funeral to do on Dec. 8th. I am almost finished with my Christmas shopping. I am going to get my hair cut and colored next week. AND I WANT TO PUT UP OUR TREE AND DECORATIONS!!!!
SO, I am going to get off the computer!!!!!! LOL!
Ellen directing the PGHS BAND
I always wait too long and then don't get to write about half of what I want to write about!
Thank God the election is over and with the results we wanted !! Yes, Obama & Tim Kaine! I wasn't looking forward to a move to Canada!
Jeffrey has been really ill, but much better now. John & I went to see the movie "LINCOLN" yesterday...it was awesome! I have started playing the banjo. The Collins let me use theirs and Allie/Ben had so much fun playing it that Karen S. is going to loan us one for Ben to keep at his apartment. It's going to be a yee haa time around the Romaine house during the Christmas holidays!
Allie will be home in 14 days! I can't wait! We plan to go to ChristmasTOWN at Busch Gardens. I'll miss the Prince George Co. parade because I am heading to Lynchburg to pick up my niece, Jenn and we are going to find and photograph an old cemetary that some EAGLES are buried in. FUN!
I love riding the John Deere and blowing the leaves with it! It is so much fun for me. We haven't been back down to Cathy's to "play" with the horses but I hope we will soon. There is just SO MUCH going on. I went to look at the first 3 houses for WORKCAMP 2013 yesterday also. That is quite a reality check!
We are also getting ready for the big 25 year celebration! I have had so much fun going through old photos!
John has a funeral to do on Dec. 8th. I am almost finished with my Christmas shopping. I am going to get my hair cut and colored next week. AND I WANT TO PUT UP OUR TREE AND DECORATIONS!!!!
SO, I am going to get off the computer!!!!!! LOL!
Thursday, November 8, 2012
Haven't Heard That Word In A Long Time...
You know....back in the sixties, the word C U LT was thrown around a lot. It reared it's head later because of Jim Jones and the fiasco in Ghyana. We now joke, "Don't drink the Kool-Aid!" but rarely see how giving up our ability to look around is quite the killer. During the election, I kept hearing the word over & over concerning some political movements and some religious choices.
You know, this wouldn't even be a phenomenom if people would THINK FOR THEMSELVES. It's a matter of getting out of the bubble of your political party, your community, your school/university, even your church if the things listed below are occuring.
I found the following principles on the internet on HOW TO START YOUR OWN CULT. It's quite amazing. It can happen in large groups or small groups if people give up their freedom of choices and rely on the opinions of the "members" that surround them 24/7.....
HOW TO START YOUR OWN CULT
1) First, create an Us vs. Them atmosphere….a utopia , "group-think" setting where your
group believes they are the ones that hold truth
2) If possible, create a commune or place where only like minded believers can live
3) Subtly isolate from anything outside the core experience - provide activities so that members
have no time and eventually have no desire to associate with those outside the core experience
To create more isolation, discourage outside different friends and activities by providing a total
package of daily emotion charged activities within the member walls. It’s all about the group
"fellowship" and it’s themes & promises.
4) Emphasize the visual and sensual over the intellectual. Create large groups of followers singing,
meditating, cheering or chanting. Distract from the study & debate of any differing opinions by
offering emotional “chill bump” happenings to convince members of their "truths".
5) Outside literature, books, movies, videos must be tightly controlled. Engaging in music/dance,&
art that has not been sanctioned by "the group" is a sign of weak devotion and must have
consequences.
6) Create an overpowering experience of love and friendship while simultaneously handing down
a standard of conduct with consequences of repremand (ie. dress, hygene, time management,
plus lists of locations & activities not permitted )
7) When members first join your "group", have them expeience "love bombing". Set up
relationships for new members such as mentors, "friends", advisors, internet connections, bunk
mates. Subtly suggest with whom members should and should not associate so that they will
not be "led astray".
8) Create choices of rituals and compulsory activities within the group's grounds. Structure as much
of a follower's day as possible, keeping them aware of the group timeline & of what is permitted
and what is required during certain parts of the day. Offer rallies, studies, concerts,
competitions. Down time only provides opportunity for questioning teachings. Again, rely
heavily on stimulating emotion through activities, speakers, music, etc.
9) Make sure the atmosphere is one of “group think” or everyone hearing the same message.
Make sure they are all well taught in defending their positions against those outside the group.
Cause it to feel risky, unloyal or even unhealthy to debate or question the groups' beliefs openly.
A group member is taught that any exploration or dialogue like this could possibly cause them to
sway or become unsure.
I can certainly see why Workcamp, with some of these elements, was called a cult by a Baptist church back in the nineties. The difference is that workcamp is a MOVEMENT and not a CULT.
Ours is a retreat of one week. We do not say one group has absolute truth over another group. Although there is a bit of some of the above elements, we are only one week. We encourage diversity and stepping out of the box to try something new and different. A movement encourages these things....a cult does not.
So check out your "group". Hopefully now that the election is over, the "C" word won't be used as much. It's exciting to see men and women following with their hearts AND THEIR HEADS!
Monday, October 29, 2012
Hurricane Sandy
The top photo is of some of the workcamp staffers that came to a wrap-up session yesterday. Everyone came dressed goofy in the Halloween spirit . They also came bearing a big brownie cake for my 60th birthday. We almost chose not to have the meeting because Hurricane Sandy is looming in the ocean. We did postpone the board meeting because Katrina is at a wedding and Debra has grandkids throwing up. We have the generator ready and water in buckets on the screen porch in case we lose power. It's really supposed to hit NJ & NY hard!
The horse pics are from our neighbors house. She adopted two horses that someone didn't want. Wonderful animals that we are welcome to come visit or ride anytime! LOVE IT!
I keep procrastinating about closing the pool. Guess we'll turn the pump off finally this coming week.
Allie was here for 4 days during mid-term. It was so good to see her. We're counting the days before she comes back for Thanksgiving. I've already started picking up grocery items. Jeffrey is coming to eat with us too.
The John Deere is terrific for corraling all the leaves. Bottom line, it's so fun to ride it and see all the leaves gone!
Well, tonight we should start rocking and rolling with the storm. Hopefully we are passed by! All flights on the east coast are shut down.
Friday, October 19, 2012
Here's What's Happening.....
I just love this time of year! Much to do but also lots of time to just ENJOY! I am treating the pool for the final time before turning it off. Allie flies home for a brief visit on Saturday, so Sunday night we are going to have a fire pit by the pool. We'll cook hot dogs and smores by the pool...so looking forward to it.
The smoke alarms in the house are going off today...looked it up on the internet and it says that "hard wired" alarms do this when they get dust in them or the back up batteries are bad. Going to get some "canned air" to blow in them and change the batteries. :(
I love riding the lawn mower over the yard just to get the leaves!
John's robe looks fabulous! Now he is dressed he just needs a place to go! We should have gotten him his own robe years ago. I still need to upload pics from the Spain's get together the other night. Will probably take lots of pics this weekend with Al home.
Wishing this election was OVER! Great presidential debate the other night. Got in a little trouble mentioning "Mormon magic underwear" on my facebook page the other day. Immediately took it off because I hate it when people debate on facebook! I value other religions, but this Mormon thing has me baffled because it's so secretive....sacred garments, the planet Kolub, baptizing the dead...and the list goes on. It's OK if this is what people want to believe, but I think if you are running for the highest office in the land, you should be more open about all of this. Once you declare yourself a public figure, your life is open to all questioning! It's pretty deceptive how they appear "christian" on the outside, but don't want it to be common knowledge about all the secret practices and ceremonies. I don't think the fundamental right wing has caught on to this. I'll be SO glad when the election is over.
Went out to Southlawn day before yesterday and put new ivy on mom's mauseleum stone. Having a ton of fun looking up OLD workcampers and referring them to our facebook page for the reunion. Looking forward to seeing all my workcamp buddies soon at the wrap-up meeting. That's when the big push for the reunion will actually begin. The brochures for next summer were mailed out the other day also. I start looking at houses in November.
Heading out on errands....think Alicia is going to be my sidekick again today.
The smoke alarms in the house are going off today...looked it up on the internet and it says that "hard wired" alarms do this when they get dust in them or the back up batteries are bad. Going to get some "canned air" to blow in them and change the batteries. :(
I love riding the lawn mower over the yard just to get the leaves!
John's robe looks fabulous! Now he is dressed he just needs a place to go! We should have gotten him his own robe years ago. I still need to upload pics from the Spain's get together the other night. Will probably take lots of pics this weekend with Al home.
Wishing this election was OVER! Great presidential debate the other night. Got in a little trouble mentioning "Mormon magic underwear" on my facebook page the other day. Immediately took it off because I hate it when people debate on facebook! I value other religions, but this Mormon thing has me baffled because it's so secretive....sacred garments, the planet Kolub, baptizing the dead...and the list goes on. It's OK if this is what people want to believe, but I think if you are running for the highest office in the land, you should be more open about all of this. Once you declare yourself a public figure, your life is open to all questioning! It's pretty deceptive how they appear "christian" on the outside, but don't want it to be common knowledge about all the secret practices and ceremonies. I don't think the fundamental right wing has caught on to this. I'll be SO glad when the election is over.
Went out to Southlawn day before yesterday and put new ivy on mom's mauseleum stone. Having a ton of fun looking up OLD workcampers and referring them to our facebook page for the reunion. Looking forward to seeing all my workcamp buddies soon at the wrap-up meeting. That's when the big push for the reunion will actually begin. The brochures for next summer were mailed out the other day also. I start looking at houses in November.
Heading out on errands....think Alicia is going to be my sidekick again today.
Friday, October 12, 2012
Fall Is Here....I Think??
It keeps going from hot to cold and then back again so our sinuses are going nuts. Louis even is having problems with one of his ears :)
Yesterday I changed out flight plans. Instead of me traveling to Atlanta for a couple days, Allie is flying home for 4 days! She found out that she has only a Greek exam for midterm, thus days with nothing! YAY!
John after YEARS of sucking on a pipe, is now trying out an electronic cigarette. It's quite fascinating....he keeps it in his pocket and has been without a pipe for a couple of days. It's pretty amazing! He has a wedding this coming Saturday in Dinwiddie and then we are going to Ruby & Keith Spain's for a barbecue. I ordered a clerical robe for John. He has never had one and has always borrowed Glenn Plott's. It should be in today and I'm waiting for the call. Ordered one that looks similiar to Edyth's.
I have been making keychains with the colors of the Palestinian flag. Just a little project to keep my hands busy when we watch TV. We finished the HOMELAND series #1 and are totally addicted! And then of course there was the VP Debate last night. We were both stuffing popcorn into our faces as fast as we could while we watched.
Lots of folks we know are coming down with pneumonia and the "up chuck" stuff but fortunately we are tiptoeing through all of it. I started Christmas shopping and the MeeMaw room is getting a little cluttered. Alicia & I went to a matinee of "Pitch Perfect" and had a good laugh.
I am getting ready to send out the WORKCAMP 2013 brochure, have the wrap-up and board meeting, contacting new churches that have requested info, and trying to update the website. I never do anything to the website during the year so each fall I sort of have to reteach myself what to do! And of course, pulling things together for the big 25th REUNION. We have already reserved Richard Bland College...the pecan grove with the gym as a back up in the evening if it rains. Once we have our wrap-up session, it will be all systems delegated and ready to go!
Nothing really exciting happening....just everyday nuts and bolts :) Ran across this old photo & LOVE IT!
Yesterday I changed out flight plans. Instead of me traveling to Atlanta for a couple days, Allie is flying home for 4 days! She found out that she has only a Greek exam for midterm, thus days with nothing! YAY!
John after YEARS of sucking on a pipe, is now trying out an electronic cigarette. It's quite fascinating....he keeps it in his pocket and has been without a pipe for a couple of days. It's pretty amazing! He has a wedding this coming Saturday in Dinwiddie and then we are going to Ruby & Keith Spain's for a barbecue. I ordered a clerical robe for John. He has never had one and has always borrowed Glenn Plott's. It should be in today and I'm waiting for the call. Ordered one that looks similiar to Edyth's.
I have been making keychains with the colors of the Palestinian flag. Just a little project to keep my hands busy when we watch TV. We finished the HOMELAND series #1 and are totally addicted! And then of course there was the VP Debate last night. We were both stuffing popcorn into our faces as fast as we could while we watched.
Lots of folks we know are coming down with pneumonia and the "up chuck" stuff but fortunately we are tiptoeing through all of it. I started Christmas shopping and the MeeMaw room is getting a little cluttered. Alicia & I went to a matinee of "Pitch Perfect" and had a good laugh.
I am getting ready to send out the WORKCAMP 2013 brochure, have the wrap-up and board meeting, contacting new churches that have requested info, and trying to update the website. I never do anything to the website during the year so each fall I sort of have to reteach myself what to do! And of course, pulling things together for the big 25th REUNION. We have already reserved Richard Bland College...the pecan grove with the gym as a back up in the evening if it rains. Once we have our wrap-up session, it will be all systems delegated and ready to go!
Nothing really exciting happening....just everyday nuts and bolts :) Ran across this old photo & LOVE IT!
Tuesday, October 2, 2012
I KEEP WAITING TOO LONG
Ben P. took this photo of Al during one of his visits to Columbia. I am excited that I booked my flight to Atlanta today and am going to down spend a couple days with my girl! It will be nice to be down there when it isn't HOT!
Since my last writing, I have turn 60 years old! I went to a Gloucester High School Mega Reunion a week ago. It was a reunion of classes from 1963 - 1971 and it was held at a huge farm in the county. The hosts had a little helicopter that they were taking people up in....and all the tables and chairs/food were set up in an airplane hanger. I met my Afghan friend, Mohammed Ihsan in the courthouse and we traveled to the gathering together. It was SO good to see him along with many other old friends I hadn't seen in probably 40 years! I can't believe I am even writing these numbers!
I made a trip down to visit Glenn & Sheila Plott just before her birthday. I took them WORKCAMP 2012 tshirts, hats and we shared pictures and videos. I'm sending them one of John's sermon CDs each week so they can listen at home.
I planted some mums down by the mailbox. Someone took our trash can and then our little solar lights at the end of the driveway..Jon David suggested setting up a deer camera to catch the culprits. That sounds like a fun idea to me!
Alicia & Ellen came over for a little time around the firepit down by the pool. Ellen was accepted into college this past week ...Gardner-Webb University in N.C. It has been a difficult week. One of the seniors at PGHS died in a car accident on the way to school. He was pulling off the road for a police car with siren & flashing lights. His car went into a culvert, flipped and into water...no one could get him out. Ellen is the band drum major...the young man that drowned played the tuba in the band. Friday night's football game was difficult. His funeral was held in the gym at the high school.
I went to Richard Bland College this past week and reserved the Pecan Grove for our workcamp 25th reunion! Lots of new faces there so when I connected with a couple of the old ones I was thankful! Now I am digging into the details and delegating! It's going to be SO MUCH FUN!!!
Also found the theme song to be used next summer for WORKCAMP 2013. It is by the group MERCY ME and is called "CRAZY ENOUGH". We are doing a 60s theme next summer! We have our board meeting and also the WrapUp meeting coming up the end of this month. It will be so good to see the people I love!
John drove to upstate NY and spent a few days with family up there. He also conducted a small graveside service for Grandma Harriet and they commited her ashes for burial. It was pouring down rain! The pic at the end of the blog is from that rainy day.
I have started making little bracelets with the colors of the Palestinian flag....just a little reminder of our friends!
Since my last writing, I have turn 60 years old! I went to a Gloucester High School Mega Reunion a week ago. It was a reunion of classes from 1963 - 1971 and it was held at a huge farm in the county. The hosts had a little helicopter that they were taking people up in....and all the tables and chairs/food were set up in an airplane hanger. I met my Afghan friend, Mohammed Ihsan in the courthouse and we traveled to the gathering together. It was SO good to see him along with many other old friends I hadn't seen in probably 40 years! I can't believe I am even writing these numbers!
I made a trip down to visit Glenn & Sheila Plott just before her birthday. I took them WORKCAMP 2012 tshirts, hats and we shared pictures and videos. I'm sending them one of John's sermon CDs each week so they can listen at home.
I planted some mums down by the mailbox. Someone took our trash can and then our little solar lights at the end of the driveway..Jon David suggested setting up a deer camera to catch the culprits. That sounds like a fun idea to me!
Alicia & Ellen came over for a little time around the firepit down by the pool. Ellen was accepted into college this past week ...Gardner-Webb University in N.C. It has been a difficult week. One of the seniors at PGHS died in a car accident on the way to school. He was pulling off the road for a police car with siren & flashing lights. His car went into a culvert, flipped and into water...no one could get him out. Ellen is the band drum major...the young man that drowned played the tuba in the band. Friday night's football game was difficult. His funeral was held in the gym at the high school.
I went to Richard Bland College this past week and reserved the Pecan Grove for our workcamp 25th reunion! Lots of new faces there so when I connected with a couple of the old ones I was thankful! Now I am digging into the details and delegating! It's going to be SO MUCH FUN!!!
Also found the theme song to be used next summer for WORKCAMP 2013. It is by the group MERCY ME and is called "CRAZY ENOUGH". We are doing a 60s theme next summer! We have our board meeting and also the WrapUp meeting coming up the end of this month. It will be so good to see the people I love!
John drove to upstate NY and spent a few days with family up there. He also conducted a small graveside service for Grandma Harriet and they commited her ashes for burial. It was pouring down rain! The pic at the end of the blog is from that rainy day.
I have started making little bracelets with the colors of the Palestinian flag....just a little reminder of our friends!
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